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I'm not going to interrogate Will and Jada's relationship and relating style because it's none of my business and frankly I don't care.
What I will say is that a lot of monogamous people are using this moment to mock and demean ethically non-monogamous relating and its trash. Just say you have a problem with polyam people in general and move.
Don't mask your distaste for nonmonogamy in joking behavior like asking "what is an entanglement?" Google it. It's a thing. Y'all are boring honestly.
Entanglement is an important concept for understanding how (regardless of romantic or platonic commitment) we embed ourselves in one another's life worlds. We do this with sex, money, emotions, trauma, family decisions, marriage, etc.
It's not complicated.
It's not complicated.
I wish y'all would realize that that your wokeness does not preclude you from complete headassery where polyamory is concerned. You don't have the range.
I've been married 14 years and I've never been monogamous. I actually don't think monogamy exists. A lot of Black polyam ppl exist tho. We are not mythical beings and Will and Jada are not our #RelationshipGoals tbh.
They are megastars. And y'all are weird for projecting.
They are megastars. And y'all are weird for projecting.
Ethical non-monogamy is not cheating. I need y'all to understand that.
Nonmonogamy is not "an affair" when it includes transparency, consent, mutual agreements, and trust.
Nonmonogamy is not "an affair" when it includes transparency, consent, mutual agreements, and trust.
Monogamy is *not* the only virtuous or honorable way to relate. If you believe that, you really shouldn't be commenting on Will and Jada, periodt.
I honestly feel like if your idea of nonmonogamy is just Will and Jada or cheating (which is unethical), you should probably just sit this one out.
This is hella important and I don't feel like doing a free teach-in on polyamory today. But yeah. This. https://twitter.com/FutureDrPrice/status/1282035127753879553?s=19
I don't know if y'all know this but no couple, I repeat, NO COUPLE OWES Y'ALL SHIT.
No couple is *required* to be monogamous to make all y'all monogamous people feel safer about monogamy. They don't have stay together. They don't have to be "good" people.
They don't owe you anything. That's not how any of this works.
They don't owe you anything. That's not how any of this works.
The desire to raise Will and Jada up to some unrealistic and unachievable standard and expecting them to perform monogamy on y'alls terms (in public) - based on literally nothing but heteronormativity and patriarchy - is gross.
Y'all been in Will and Jada's business since 1997. It's been more than 2 decades.
Ain't y'all tired of worrying about somebody else's relationship? Is yours together?
Ain't y'all tired of worrying about somebody else's relationship? Is yours together?
