I ask myself, am I actually into this chick or do I just like the idea of her...

It's a question i'm glad I've started asking, because so easily with social media we can fall in love with the idea of how i'd be to be with someone... versus the reality.

Yea, she post dope pics & runs a businesses.
Am I in a place where I'm understanding enough to be with a woman whose time will likely be dedicated to the business?

Am I emotionally mature enough to be able to hold space for her emotional load when she begins to feel overwhelmed?

Am I able to fully show up and be present with her if we get into a relationship?

Am I cool with the amount of attention that she gets on the regular bases, and am comfortable with how she responds to that attention?

Asking these questions... keeps me grounded.