A lot of male abuse goes under the radar because women abuse men and then tell people that they were abused themselves by the man and people demonize the man because they believe a woman being abused over a man being abused.
There are some real narcissistic ass women out there who know how to play situations to seem like a victim and dodging all accountability for their violence by acting battered and innocent. It runs deep.
My man would literally call the cops on his ex for popping his tires and beating him like literally leaving him bloody. She would destroy his property and scream at him for literal hours in front of their kids and then hit herself before the cops got there so he would look bad.
He literally went to jail while being the total victim of abuse. Verified by his children. Because she was a woman.
Almost every single memory his daughter tells me of her childhood is of her mom physically and verbally abusing her dad every single day and people to this day still probably think it’s the other way around because that’s what his ex told everyone. It’s tragic.
And this isn’t to take away from the abuse women really do go through. It’s definitely an epidemic. Believe victims but understand that if someone says violence occurs towards them in every single relationship they get into then maybe something isn’t adding up.