Cis allies:
You're not TRAs.
Trans masc and AFAB nonbinary people:
You're not TRAs.
TRA is an attempt to misgender trans women, and to mock us, by associating us with MRAs. It's to say we're right wing defenders of male privilege, because as the GC suggestion goes, we're men.
You're not TRAs.
Trans masc and AFAB nonbinary people:
You're not TRAs.
TRA is an attempt to misgender trans women, and to mock us, by associating us with MRAs. It's to say we're right wing defenders of male privilege, because as the GC suggestion goes, we're men.
It's an odious, misgendering slur.
If you're transmisogyny-exempt, just please leave the word be. It sucks enough without you claiming it in solidarity.
Be a trans advocate.
If you're transmisogyny-exempt, just please leave the word be. It sucks enough without you claiming it in solidarity.
Be a trans advocate.
If you're cis, say you fight for trans rights, but only trans people can dictate what trans rights are.
Say that, because every GC insists they too support trans rights. They don't, bc they mock trans advocacy.
You can't support minority rights if you mock minority advocacy.
Say that, because every GC insists they too support trans rights. They don't, bc they mock trans advocacy.
You can't support minority rights if you mock minority advocacy.
When you frame trans rights as something only trans people can dictate, you take away the appeal to good will in GCs' faux claims of allyship.
Many retreat to insisting not all trans people believe the same things.
Thing is, that's true. But it directly undermines their broadbrush "TRA" depiction.
And it reinforces that only trans folx can dictate what constitutes our structural harm and our needs in addressing it
Thing is, that's true. But it directly undermines their broadbrush "TRA" depiction.
And it reinforces that only trans folx can dictate what constitutes our structural harm and our needs in addressing it
Not all trans people are the same. Which is why some of us are harmed by a slur that slides right off others. We're different. Which is why surgery matters to some and not others. Ditto passing, using gendered spaces, hormones, and trans youth affirming services.
What they ridicule is the fact all trans people are different. Because when they vaunt their collection of 5 GC trans tokens, they're insisting we must all be like their tokens, otherwise we're unreasonable.
They want us all to be uniform. In the image they dictate. But we don't all have the same needs. We don't all suffer the same particulars of transphobia.
Only we can dictate our needs.
And including all our needs? Including all trans women's needs? That's what they label TRA.
Only we can dictate our needs.
And including all our needs? Including all trans women's needs? That's what they label TRA.
You will find that above all, all their tokens have one thing in common: they grant GCs permission to frame trans women as dangerous men.
They hurl "TRA" at anyone who doesn't. But as a trans woman, they hurl it at us for breathing. Our existence is the great affront they fight.
They hurl "TRA" at anyone who doesn't. But as a trans woman, they hurl it at us for breathing. Our existence is the great affront they fight.