If you don’t have get out money then me and you, we not the same. This is hetero relationship 101. Always have or be having the means to leave because men will kill you while you sleep. If they mad? They the ones who will kill you! https://twitter.com/aita_reddit/status/1295349777153101827

A man once told me that my problem was “you can always go home! We can’t ever be together because you don’t need me.” Let that sink in.

I buy my little sisters all their very first diamonds, fancy dinner, & vacation because if all a man can show you is an entry level good time predicated on power assymetries then you will have bad sex & you’re more likely to be abused. No sir and no ma’am. Not the McMillan girls