Idlozi can be very invasive yaz, I was traveling from East London to JHB using a bus. So, next to me there was this tall chick who struggled to sleep. I said its fine ungaqamelela emathangeni kum so that you can sleep peacefully. She declined, I said okay no probs.

After 2 hours she waited for me to come back from the loo then requested to sleep emathangeni am. I said its all good, then I also fell asleep. Now naku ndiphupha kuthwa kudala efuna ulala ethangeni kum qha ebenentloni, and when she declined ebesonqena ngathi ulula.

I was like "really dlozi". I laughed and it wasn't really a dream I wanted to have. When Idlozi li invasive you have to respect that and not project to someone that you know what she was thinking, its a private space, a private thought. Know your spiritual boundaries.