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This person I do not know and have only seen in person like... twice.... just dumped a book of emotion into my DMs on IG. At the end said thanks for letting me vent. 
on the one hand im happy my post triggered clarity.... on the other..... boundaries.
on the one hand im happy my post triggered clarity.... on the other..... boundaries.
I’m really trying to learn the correct way to establish and honor boundaries for myself. I use to take pride in people telling me all their shit.... but now all it feels is heavy. ESPECIALLY because this person is not someone who is in my inner circle/safe space.
My friends don’t really ask each other to vent, but that is OK because we have established the foundation of safeness between each other. Recognizing when someone takes advantage of your ear is important. More important when they are a literal stranger.
I just thought it was interesting that she would think to thank me... but did not think to ask permission.... goes back to this tweet I saw just two days ago...
I posted it for myself... because I know I over share A LOT. And it’s interesting because I haven’t spoken to this person in months. And she decides to emo dump lol. I see you universe. I wouldn’t have recognized it before two days ago...
