A commenter brought to my attention that patreon has been cracking down on certain nsfw content when I mentioned trying to find a stable place for income.
So I did some research into the matter.
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So I did some research into the matter.
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/thenextweb.com/tech/2019/06/27/patreon-continues-to-crack-down-on-nsfw-content-creators/amp/
Article from last year
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Article from last year
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I will reiterate at this until I I’m blue in the face:
Yes.
I want these things done to me and to do these things.
You know how?
In a SAFE & trustworthy setting between two consenting, bdsm veteran, ADULTS. With all the discussion, safety measures, safe words, aftercare,
Yes.
I want these things done to me and to do these things.
You know how?
In a SAFE & trustworthy setting between two consenting, bdsm veteran, ADULTS. With all the discussion, safety measures, safe words, aftercare,
And even occasionally the training that it requires.
Real, HEALTHY depictions of bdsm only ever involves consenting adults playing at each other’s fantasy. Who are ALWAYS aware of the other’s health and needs. And that this is only ever pretend.
Real, HEALTHY depictions of bdsm only ever involves consenting adults playing at each other’s fantasy. Who are ALWAYS aware of the other’s health and needs. And that this is only ever pretend.
The idea of a person being truly mentally or physically hurt, and it being MY fault physically repulses me.
In fictional content we can cut down to the brass tax because there are NO REAL living breathing human beings. With emotions and complexities and histories to protect.


There are many people ignorant of all the unspoken laws and safety precautions in place in a proper bdsm setting.
EVEN within our own community.
But instead of shouting people out or banning them we should EDUCATE others on proper safety with such intimate & delicate matters.
EVEN within our own community.
But instead of shouting people out or banning them we should EDUCATE others on proper safety with such intimate & delicate matters.
For gods’ sake- at the very LEAST to prevent more people from accidentally hurting each other.


PROPER BDSM Is only EVER about pleasing BOTH parties. If one person is being hurt or scarred or violated - then it completely DEFEATS the purpose.






