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Dating her own age is mostly equivalent to soft innocent grooming. In most cases, she finds herself the defector parent. She is a master of entanglements because her needs must be satisfied while she scrambles to find the right guy.
Even when the right guy approaches its either a ben10, a married man, or a man with a lot of spiritual baggage. One would say it is a turn off for the ages. The power of the spiritual woman can be traced in her family structure
The analysis of the men around her household in relation to herself. She acts more of a “man” to his brothers excuse the social stereotype concept but must use it to put my message across. She is a source of power, sometimes a source of conflict, and sometimes a root problem.
but sometimes a source of power when the family needs her. They know her power. In most cases the love life of the spiritual woman is in tatters but why does she attract married men?
To answer this, we must first identify that marriage is a spiritual pact, a spiritual union that transcends beyond the physical. In the spiritual realm, a man is a man through his status, marriage.
In the Isixhosa culture, we even go as far as saying “Uyindoda” when a man just got married. There are levels in spirituality and to understand the level of marriage you can even trace it in how village old men and women view a makoti and her husband.
A married man is a head of the house in spiritual levels, a maturity level that affords him to seat with old men and women and talk adult stuff. The conversations gel because they are within the same parameters.
The spiritual woman by virtue of walking with spiritual elders, Amadlozi gets attracted to the married man, oh yes, the married man by virtue of his spiritual seat as the head of the house gets attracted to the spiritual woman.
They are within the same parameters even though she is not married, this is since she is spiritual, walks with Amadlozi. The whole attraction is spiritual, that is why every spiritual woman knowingly and unknowingly attracts married men.
In the spiritual world, we attract people who are in the same spiritual threshold and those people by virtue of their statuses in life that have spiritual weight or by virtue of their age hence we always punching above our weight.
To make this easier to understand my beautiful reader, I Gatyeni can attract a woman 10 times older than me, a sugar mama, and yet can attract a woman that is 10 years younger than me. This is because we are in the same spiritual threshold.
Married men and single spiritual women are in the same spiritual threshold and they will always attract each other. This cheating will always be evident, will always surface. The good wives at home might wanna buckle up because it ain’t going nowhere.
The problem though, these married men become selfish, obsessive. They wanna have the spiritual side chick all to themselves while they have wives at home. They want when they want you to get you all the time. Your husband’s ladies feel entitled to our spiritual single ladies.
