ghosting can be a shitty move but the reality is if ppl were more invested in mindful detachment and less invested in staking so much of their worth/identity on external validation i don’t think it would be such an issue
it’s much easier to wave off somebody’s behavior as indicative of their own issues & flaws when you’re secure in yourself. and so for me, that is a much more practical line of defense than trying to tackle somebody else’s insecurities.
i also say it CAN be, bc one thing i know from watching this and other convos on here is that ppls entitlement to others is very high, and ppl tend have very short memories when it comes to their own potentially negative contributions to their situations lol