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What is esex and how to have it: a comprehensive thread from the world’s foremost expert on esexual relations (1/10)
What is esex?
esex is a catchall term for both text based esex (sexting) and voice call based esex (phone sex, essentially)
esex is a catchall term for both text based esex (sexting) and voice call based esex (phone sex, essentially)
Like in actual sex (although you virgins wouldn’t know) esex often requires one individual to be the dominant and the other the submissive, however both must be engaged in participation for it to be enjoyable
Ideally, esex begins with the dominant individual describing a scenario and the submissive responding with what they would do in said scenario, the greater level of detail the greater the esex will be
For example, saying “I’ll pin you against the wall and run my hands up and down your body” is less engaging than “I’ll grab your arms and pin them behind your back as i shove you up against the wall, I take my free hand and grope your left thigh”
Then there’s the added level of control the dominant has over the submissive, often times controlling how she is dressed, when and how she touches herself, and deciding whether or not she has permission to cum
In some cases you can go even further making the submissive hit themself (slap, spank, paddle themself etc), twist their nipples until it hurts, gag themselves with their fingers, etc. A submissive enjoys serving so this is pleasurable
Some submissives prefer a more soft and loving approach (“good girl”, “you’re doing great”) others prefer more degradation (“you’re a dirty disgusting whore, you’ll do anything you’re told”) but most prefer a balanced approach
Submissives want to be controlled and the further you push them toward their limit the more they’ll enjoy it, and like you in return. As such, making them edge and playing with their emotions is important for the best time
Now go out and lose your evirginity you losers!
