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Please heal from past hurt, insecurities and mishaps. The next person you align with does not deserve the leftover pieces of you. It’s not their job to put you back together.
Furthermore, I know how deep some wounds are. Sometimes we never fully come back from them. We just learn to navigate with the scars. There are people out there who are understanding and patient. Others are not.
i.e. your ex made you feel less than, it’s not my job to reassure you 24/7 that you are worth it. It’s your job to dissect why you allowed someone to make you feel that way and have that control over your feelings. It’s your job to discover self love and feel worthy.
i.e. your ex cheated on you, it’s not my job to cut off friends who intimidate you or openly give you passwords to every device I own. It’s your job to heal from that hurt, to forgive and create your own closure. Do not micromanage your partner due to fear or insecurity.
i.e. you didn’t grow up around affection, it’s not my job to shower you with affection 24/7 because you lacked that growing up so now you strongly desire it from me. It’s your job to seek help/healing to help you understand a natural balance of affection and space.
I’m just saying. I can’t wait to create the Love pt.2 convo on YouTube.
