I am truly shocked that Kathleen Stock believes that Elliot owes lesbians a damn thing. He is who he is and he has bodily autonomy. How he identifies in future and who he has sex with is none of Stock's business.
Nor mine.
Nor mine.
Oh but the transes are stealing our imaginary girlfriends...
No one is stealing anyone and it shows an unhealthy set of obsessions that people think a community can own people forever.
It's particularly bizarre from people who get very upset about lesbian trans women.
No one is stealing anyone and it shows an unhealthy set of obsessions that people think a community can own people forever.
It's particularly bizarre from people who get very upset about lesbian trans women.
My story is isn't everyone's and other stories are valid.
During the period when I tried to present as male, I slept with men. My best woman friend persuaded me into experimental sex with her - I realised I could love women but didn't like being male.
So I transitioned.
During the period when I tried to present as male, I slept with men. My best woman friend persuaded me into experimental sex with her - I realised I could love women but didn't like being male.
So I transitioned.
While I was transitioning, I had a lot of sex with men and was quite enthusiastic about it. A lot of them said they were straight.
Unfortunately I got sexually abused and raped as will happen if you sleep with skeevy men.
I had GRS related health problems for a couple of years.
Unfortunately I got sexually abused and raped as will happen if you sleep with skeevy men.
I had GRS related health problems for a couple of years.
I put on weight and the men I was attracted to were less interested. At the same time lesbians asked me on dates.
It was the height of the 80s anti trans anti bi panic - but I thought about bad relationships with men and said OK. My lovers got bullied and moved on .
It was the height of the 80s anti trans anti bi panic - but I thought about bad relationships with men and said OK. My lovers got bullied and moved on .
In due course I fell seriously in love with a woman and we have lived happily ever after.
I didn't start calling myself a lesbian. Lesbians started calling me a lesbian.
I really don't think Stock and her ilk get to accuse me of being a straight man.
I didn't start calling myself a lesbian. Lesbians started calling me a lesbian.
I really don't think Stock and her ilk get to accuse me of being a straight man.
Not because of the disrespect to me because why should I care? I have had to run from the Mob: MI5 have a file on me: I survived more than one serious illness.
I hate the disrespect to the lesbians who chose to be my lovers knowing my history.
I hate the disrespect to the lesbians who chose to be my lovers knowing my history.
I never lied to anyone. I made damn sure that anyone who showed ínterest knew I was trans.
(I've always been concerned about consent. I'm 6 4 with huge feet - you might think I didn't have to out myself but actually...)
Yet people think they have the right to say who I am.
(I've always been concerned about consent. I'm 6 4 with huge feet - you might think I didn't have to out myself but actually...)
Yet people think they have the right to say who I am.
They think they have the right to tell Elliott who he is.
What I want to know is this.
Did I miss a fucking vote?
Who appointed Kathleen Stock head of the lesbian border police?
What I want to know is this.
Did I miss a fucking vote?
Who appointed Kathleen Stock head of the lesbian border police?
Woman is not a nation state.
Lesbian is not a nation state.
There's no reason to import border controls and passport checks from right wing anti immigrant narratives.
Get your fascist mitts off other people's sex lives.
Lesbian is not a nation state.
There's no reason to import border controls and passport checks from right wing anti immigrant narratives.
Get your fascist mitts off other people's sex lives.