ok no really, the difference here is that the boys don't subscribe to toxic masculinity or believe in that garbage and are naturally more "feminine" or "cute"... It's weird to see it on dr*ke bc that's not the image he presents.. like y'all are really reading into this too much https://twitter.com/irene_hyyh/status/1338617276606648321
think about all the times the boys themselves have "acted cute" (like normal humans in my fcking opinion) and then think about if dr*ke would ever do that. and that's BEFORE fans ever do anything. so. certain things are just cringe/cute and not "infantilizing."
n e way this is a dumb conversation to be even having lol. you can be cute and make cute edits as long as you're not trying to control their behavior. now THAT'S infantilizing.