Self care gifts for your man** that he doesn’t know he needs, but will thank you later: a thread


**man = OFFICIAL boyfriend, fiancé, or husband; cheaters & clubhouse moan room participants disqualified



**man = OFFICIAL boyfriend, fiancé, or husband; cheaters & clubhouse moan room participants disqualified
Let’s start with the obvious one: pussy 


Up next: a SILK (NOT SATIN, SILK) durag. Silk prevents moisture loss and frizz better than any other fabric. Buy Black and get yours from @TheeSkinBoss https://lineagestudionyc.com/shop-hair/p/durags (if you want a silk bonnet if he has long hair, she sells those too).
2. SPF!!! Men don’t wear it enough for my liking. His dark marks won’t go anywhere without it. Wearing it daily will noticeably even out his skin tone. Great SPFs that leave zero white cast? @BlkGrlSunscreen, @Neutrogena hydroboost, @Supergoop
3. Ingrown hair treatments. If he has a beard, he probably struggles with ingrowns. He needs to start exfoliating at night (the days he’s not shaving) 2-3x a week. @browjoi sells ingrown hair kits with all the keys to success. (1/2)
3. Ingrown hair treatments (cont) — BUT! You can still purchase some amazing products individually that will banish his ingrowns from @browjoi’s site. PFB Ultra Vanish is AMAZING for keeping ingrowns at bay https://www.browjoi.com/shop
4. A hydrating cleanser! It’s v important he’s using a cleanser that will properly cleanse his face and help protect/repair his skin barrier especially if he has facial hair. Great ones: CeraVe Hydrating Cleanser, Black owned: Ara by Essence Bare Face Wash https://lineagestudionyc.com/shop-skin/p/bare-face-wash
5. Does he smoke? If he does his lips need to be exfoliated regularly. @FreshBeauty Sugar Lip Wonder Drops will have his lips super smooth and even toned thanks to the AHAs it’s packed with. Once a day at night layered w CeraVe healing ointment on top 
https://www.fresh.com/us/lip-care/sugar-wonder-drops-lip-primer-H00004661.html


6. If he breaks out a mask you can both use together for self care nights: @rosenskincare (Black owned) Earth Mask. Clay and zinc to fight oiliness and bacteria (important if he shaves) https://www.rosenskincare.com/products/earth-mask
6. Another amazing mask if he’s acne prone: @PTRskin Sulfur mask. 10% sulfur & clay to help take care of excess oil and fight acne all in one. Deff in my top 5, you and him can do it together (esp when you’re breaking out, sulfur is bomb for hormonal acne) https://www.peterthomasroth.com/therapeutic-sulfur-mask-1301402.html?cgid=masks
7. Fight his ingrowns with @PaulasChoice 2% BHA liquid exfoliant. He’ll be using this 2-3x a week at night the days he doesn’t shave. Salicylic acid is great to unclog pores and fight inflammation https://www.paulaschoice.com/skin-perfecting-2pct-bha-liquid-exfoliant/201.html
8. PLS GET HIM TO STOP POPPING HIS PIMPLES
he doesn’t have to live this way anymore thanks to @herocosmetics Mighty Patch. When he gets those pesky whiteheads he asks you to pop, put one of these zit stickers on him at night. https://www.herocosmetics.us/products/mighty-patch-original

9. Getting into hair, if he wants to define his curls on his lil thot cut @unclefunkys curl magic will do the trick. Apply on WET hair, and dry for defined and hydrated curls. Again: USE ON WET HAIR. Filled with humectants to add moisture https://unclefunkysdaughter.com/curly-magic.html
10. Posture correcting brace. It’s no secret men (& women!) have horrible posture lol. This brace will help him square his shoulders and alleviate a lot of back and neck pain, amazing if he’s hunched over on a computer working form home all day https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07ZQPKTVV?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Fin 
! Please don’t gift no nigga you can’t post
save your coins and choose peace.


