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The Five Love Languages for Dominants. and how you, a submissive can use them.
1. Touch
Being intentional with touch is so important to someone whose love language is touch. Massage them, feed them, make sure their bodies are comfortable and cared for. Touch goes beyond sex.
1. Touch
Being intentional with touch is so important to someone whose love language is touch. Massage them, feed them, make sure their bodies are comfortable and cared for. Touch goes beyond sex.
2. Gifts
A domme whose love language is Gifts is going to appreciate being spoiled by presents and money. This is a common thing loved by Dommes but being intentional about those things will be noticed. Get her something SHE wants, not something sexy for you.
A domme whose love language is Gifts is going to appreciate being spoiled by presents and money. This is a common thing loved by Dommes but being intentional about those things will be noticed. Get her something SHE wants, not something sexy for you.
3. Acts of Service
A big one. This is all about being aware of your Dominants needs. Are they tired, help them get some rest by offering to tackle some of their tasks. Get them food, pay for someone to take care of a task for them. Initiate asking what they need.
A big one. This is all about being aware of your Dominants needs. Are they tired, help them get some rest by offering to tackle some of their tasks. Get them food, pay for someone to take care of a task for them. Initiate asking what they need.
4. Words of Affirmation
If your Dominants love language is this you better be prepared to learn how to truly communicate. This goes beyond compliments and you will be noticed if you show up for them in these ways. Let them word vomit at you, let them process at you. Leave notes
If your Dominants love language is this you better be prepared to learn how to truly communicate. This goes beyond compliments and you will be noticed if you show up for them in these ways. Let them word vomit at you, let them process at you. Leave notes
5. Quality Time
Quality time means your full attention. Not on your phone, not distracted by tasks or routine. A special time set aside for you to just Be. Even virtually this is possible. Set up facetime calls, text and give your time consistently.
Quality time means your full attention. Not on your phone, not distracted by tasks or routine. A special time set aside for you to just Be. Even virtually this is possible. Set up facetime calls, text and give your time consistently.
So, do you know your Domโs love language? What other ways have you found to show up for them in their language.
p.s. via touch: offer your body as a relaxation tool. itโs cathartic to physically get stuff out for touchies
