Somebody recommended this book yesterday. (Sorry I have completely forgotten who maybe @KnownHeretic ?
Anyway I got access via open library and I will link at the end.
It’s from 1997 but it translates really well to issues surrounding me. telling women we can’t have boundaries
Anyway I got access via open library and I will link at the end.
It’s from 1997 but it translates really well to issues surrounding me. telling women we can’t have boundaries
#ForcedTeaming. Here it’s described as an individual tactic to manipulate. This resonates with the forced teaming of the LGB with the T & demands that women have common cause with AGP males.
What we all know. It is safer to ask for help from another woman than a man in some contexts. (Example is late at night in a car park) .
This extract is worth quoting in full. Women talking about our need for single sex spaces are belittled by some men; who can also get really aggressive which kind of strengthens our argument.
This extract is followed up with some good advice about knowing *when* you are at risk. Don’t ignore your intuition often you are processing danger signals quicker than your conscious thoughts are processing them. (He also doesn’t exaggerate. We do go outside risk is in context)
Good list of factors predicting violence. Twitter aggro is not real life but it does get directed at women who reject males sexually / don’t validate their “identity”. Lots of male entitlement too....
This
. Seeking justification to respond abusively often with no engagement with what you actually say. #ManufacturedOutrage

Golden rule for anyone wishing to appease demands women abandon our sex based rights. #NoNegotiation.
This seems eerily prescient about the role we play. “A screen upon which a man projects his needs”. #Autogynephilia
When women are not allowed to state who is entitled to be in our spaces we create a dangerous standard.
This on the poor job schools can do on protecting our kids. I am learning this from policies telling girls their boundaries are bigotry. #CheckYourSchool. Girls have a right to single sex spaces.
You can get access here. It’s free but they need donations. They also run the archive service to keep digital history. Particularly important when we have historical revisionism running rampant.
https://openlibrary.org
https://openlibrary.org