WHY SEYI DEY SHAKE 😃
Many matured husbands and perhaps some women will see the consistency in @seyishae's case study tweets. Let me warn aspiring wives in advance, you will likely go through these phases of myriads of confusion, months or years, shortly after marriage.
Women feeling anxious for good reasons and for many reasons that are of no good, will be greatly influenced by Baby Blues,
Postpartum Mood Disorders (PPMD), or a combination of both. These two phenomenon aren't the same. Let Seyi breath. Be prepared, yours is coming. 😃
Now that the new order is SoroSoke, its no longer tenable to judge where people choose to do their dirty laundry, as long as you can sift through answers to the simultaneous equations men will throw at you in marriage. Especially with regards to code of silence imposed on women.
Before you get married, make sure your toilet is a fanciful and well decorated place. That's where women do most of their crying and pondering when men drive them crazy. 🤣
Many husbands wont know there were occasions their women aren't in the loo to use it for its purpose.
Except for physical abuse, nearly everything is tolerable in marriage, if you so wish. My wife's 1st shock was my abhorrence to eating in the same plate and wearing "and co," dresses. My first habit stems from all the meat I lost, eating from the same plate with my elder brother.
The second battle my wife didn't win is the "where are you" cliche sense of insecurity manifestation in newly wedded. How she survived this phase, I honestly don't know. May be, this was providence preparing us both for a job that takes me away half of a year, from a family life.
In many years, it's been my turn to give her absolute peace of mind. She's probably the most secured woman on earth now, in her 30inches bone straight. I've possibly made the years she had wondered if she didn't make a mistake worth it. The disaster lies in men who dont grow up!
I believe women are naturally grommed prepared, right from adolescent, for who they will be when married. If you like, court a man for 100 yrs, many of the attributes he will exhibit, when married will be governed by his ambition, his perception of self and of his social status.
Marriage is blindfolded fashion designing. There'd be times you'll cut the cloth into buba when you want blouse. Its patience that will teach you how to make your wrong designs amenable.
If you follow social media to sew yours, you go wear aam like agbada that has half shoulder.
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