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A thread on #marriages/ #weddings 1 of 3:
Was married for 18 years, knew him for 20 years.
Some lessons learned:
1)So many prepare for the big day but how many actually prepare for the life ahead?
2)You might discuss finances but do you discuss who handled money in your homes?
Was married for 18 years, knew him for 20 years.
Some lessons learned:
1)So many prepare for the big day but how many actually prepare for the life ahead?
2)You might discuss finances but do you discuss who handled money in your homes?
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3)Work through individual issues through #therapy/ #counselling eg past relationships or parent issues.
4)Discuss if you want children / not, how many ?
5)Discuss conflict resolution:are you an avoider or tackler?
6)Be intentional about investing in your relationship.
3)Work through individual issues through #therapy/ #counselling eg past relationships or parent issues.
4)Discuss if you want children / not, how many ?
5)Discuss conflict resolution:are you an avoider or tackler?
6)Be intentional about investing in your relationship.
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7) discuss sex/pleasure/porn
8)Stay accountable, find couple you both admire you can be vulnerable with.
9)Discuss responsibilities around home: cooking, child rearing, in laws, cleaning, everything if possible.
10) know you are on same team
11)date night after kids too
7) discuss sex/pleasure/porn
8)Stay accountable, find couple you both admire you can be vulnerable with.
9)Discuss responsibilities around home: cooking, child rearing, in laws, cleaning, everything if possible.
10) know you are on same team
11)date night after kids too
The above should be included in Marriage 
presentations: laugh together, love is a decision esp. over time,unity, commitment too.
Pastors/vicars/ engaged/newly wed @Gaemechanger, @FaithChildMusic, @KunleOyedeji, @Juelz_2020. God made marriage&preparation is key!
presentations: laugh together, love is a decision esp. over time,unity, commitment too.Pastors/vicars/ engaged/newly wed @Gaemechanger, @FaithChildMusic, @KunleOyedeji, @Juelz_2020. God made marriage&preparation is key!
Enjoy #single period of your life: continue to be self aware, love yourself, build meaningful friendships, travel
, invest, save, learn financial independence, don't put your life on hold, embrace hobbies or new skills, practice Gratitude, you are valuable and worthy of love
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, invest, save, learn financial independence, don't put your life on hold, embrace hobbies or new skills, practice Gratitude, you are valuable and worthy of love!
