i see a lot of stays on the tl angry abt the way other stays have handled the situation and that’s completely valid ! however i feel like instead of tweeting out your anger and talking about how terrible it is,, it might be more effective to directly tell and +

educate the stays you saw and mention specific actions they did to allow them to reflect, rather than speaking on how awful they were so they can learn! i posted something with the hastag and immediately removed it after oomf told me abt the situation and i’m so thankful ! +

i feel like if we all are here for each other despite our mistakes, or if someone does do something awful, maybe instead of tweeting negativity we can focus on what we can improve ! the last thing the boys would want is us angry at each other:) this is just imo btw^^