The convo about men not “letting” “their” woman do the challenges really has had me thinking all day.

What is a man’s manhood when you strip away patriarchal roles in relation to the women in his life?

Simply put I believe most men’s manhood rely on the control of women.
I’m not pointing fingers at other men here but actually making a general observation about “manhood” in general.

And when you strip away unwarranted commentary about women’s bodies/appearances... their choices, their existence... what’s left of our “manhood?”
I desire what society has dubbed a “nuclear family unit” and I am also Christian. So yeah... it’s *in me* to feel like it would be my “right” to object to my (hypothetical) woman participating in something that puts her sensuality on display.

But I recognize that’s not ok.
And today has had me thinking deeply and critically about why men feel they’re entitled to control women... and not just the women in their lives but just... women. Alluhm.

Why?

And what good does it do us or them or society at large?
And in realizing it’s not good practice, again, I come back to that blank canvas of manhood and ask... what is “manhood” besides the pursuit of women and ultimately their forced submission to the “authority” of men.

What’s gained from living with that belief?
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