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Women subconsciously love anything that promotes hypergamy. That’s why the likes of Toke, Lori Harvey, James Brown, Bobrisky, Jaruma, Omoshola, etc remain their role models. “Advices” from such people would ruin your life. Their reality isn’t better than yours. Be warned.
Hypergamy birthed the bad decisions you regret today. You kept chasing the “bad guys” (who didn’t invest). They only kept you around for “sex” which you mistook for “relationship.” Place hypergamy on a leash or your life becomes a ticking-bomb, waiting to explode.
HOW THEY PROMOTE IT:
A) Jaruma: Having girls between 14-24 use charms on men, during sex. These girls burn ALL their youth ( in exchange for resources). Then they hit the wall; completely damaged and can’t settle anymore. Her life is a case study that those shits don’t work.
A) Jaruma: Having girls between 14-24 use charms on men, during sex. These girls burn ALL their youth ( in exchange for resources). Then they hit the wall; completely damaged and can’t settle anymore. Her life is a case study that those shits don’t work.
B) Omoshola: What kind of person says “if that old grandpa will give you peace, date him?” By peace, she means money. I guess self-value is out the door these days
“May the best woman win”—denotes competition. She’s happy many girls are getting (or) already damaged like her.
“May the best woman win”—denotes competition. She’s happy many girls are getting (or) already damaged like her.
C) Miwa: Same person telling single girls not to use her products on married men was doing the opposite in reality. What then is the point of kayamata if it can’t give “your own?” Also, women are each other’s problem. Because, it’s really NOT that hard to help your fellow woman.
D) Bobrisky: He’s found a way to use women for attention (to boost his social status). He knows women want the highest-value guy, so he says what they wanna hear. Basically using their hypergamy against them. And sadly, ladies are heeding—esp the ones in their prime(early 20’s).
E) James: He said “this 2021, better hold your husband. Hold am well. We are coming, we plenty.” With no iota of shame. Now, what teachings does he offer girls between 13-24 following him? Except that they should sleep with married men, break homes and distribute their pussy?
F) Toke: Regretting why she didn’t spend her 20’s like Lori. Telling girls that their 20’s is for “exploring and dating men.” How about their 20’s is for kickstarting a career, learning skills and abstaining from male attention?—esp bc it’s in that stage they make bad decisions?
G) Lori: Same society telling her “Do you girl” will be the one attacking her once she hits the wall without settling. Society is FEMALE because it’s them that’ll shame her. Her SMV has dropped and these men know but don’t care because they always want the sexual attention.
She’s in her peak stage. Men know what girls her age want. Meek Mill said “I got Lori Harvey on my wishlist” on a feature with Future (who was dating her at that time). He wouldn’t have said that (if she was any valuable). They see her as a “pocket pussy.” It’s crazy.
Major Keys:
Kayamata doesn’t keep men. Your youth is what does—tight/ firm body, cute face and submissive behavior too. With or w/o kayamata, they’ll always want the sex (even if it’s shitty). Men would rather have you as “pocket pussy” than completely take you off their plate.
Kayamata doesn’t keep men. Your youth is what does—tight/ firm body, cute face and submissive behavior too. With or w/o kayamata, they’ll always want the sex (even if it’s shitty). Men would rather have you as “pocket pussy” than completely take you off their plate.
Kayamata can’t tie an alpha male or make him solely commit to you. Imagine thinking you can lock a David, Kidd, Tristan, Future, Wizkid or Ned using that? Those men are in their frame/ chasing goals (which attracted you). And somehow, they know if they lose frame, you’re out.
These sellers will post a “special package” and women will start losing their minds; purchasing with money lent or tuition fees. Money they should’ve learnt a skill or started a business with. Hypergamy is the reason—anything to be with the HIGHEST-value guy. It’s soo forceful..
that’s why you must learn to control it. As a woman, you can provide for/by yourself too (if only you use your brains and hands). It’ll also save you from many unwanted sex. Men can always get back the resources, BUT what about your sexual market value (SMV)?....
Once you give out your youth via sex or online nudity, it’s gone. Therefore the best thing a girl in her prime can do for herself and future is to “conserve her sexuality” and self-improve. Many can’t even imagine being single—due to the emotional imprints of previous mates. Sad.
I just wish women knew “how much youth/ life energy sex takes away from them, how it reduces their SMV and makes them age faster.” Sex isn’t their biological need (like it is for men). That’s why some even choose sex as a payment alternative eg Uber driver, HR, lecturer etc.
Lastly, y’all say “men sexually objectify women.” How so, when it’s y’all hopping on the bussit and silhouette challenge? Men never asked y’all to do that. As a woman, everything about your body is your power. Give it out too easily and he’ll lose interest. It is what it is.
