How to become the perfect man

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Be an expert at something

If you are going to stand out, you need to be CAPABLE

You need to develop a unique skill or become better than the others at something

Preferably, follow whatever you are passionate about.
Your passion combined with hard work will get you to expertise level.

If you cannot demonstrate to be skillful and reliable, you will never be special.

You cannot stand out if you're average at everything.

Be bad at other stuff but be the best at what YOU do.
Value your word & promises

This is not only an underrated trait but also one that shapes a man's value in the eyes of everyone.

Someone that does not stick to their word, do what they say they will; will forever be seen as irresponsible

They can never be respected.
Be a gentleman

This does not only apply to how one should behave with women.

Be classy and above the rest.

Don't try to make people pay for you, open the door to anyone that is with you regardless of their gender.

Keep a smile on your face, talk slowly.

Remain in control.
Value your time

The one that comes early and/or stays late at whatever event has clearly nothing better to be doing.

Here is a tip to do this unintentionally:

Stick to your habits.

Invited out? Go for it.

But you need to be home on time to take care of yourself.
Your priority being yourself, you will be able to never give too much of your time to anyone.

By doing so, you give more value to your presence.

People will be aware that it is not easy to get your time and attention because you are focused on your own (more important) things.
Use silence to your advantage

People who talk too much or answer too quickly are usually uninteresting. Or at least sound like it.

When you give yourself moments of silence before talking, you allow yourself to properly think and formulate your answers.

But there is more to it
The brief silence also creates momentum and importance to what you are about to say;

By remaining silent, you prepare your audience for a thoughtful answer.

You apply the pressure on the others without talking

Similar tips on the thread below: https://twitter.com/EgoDriv/status/1358376877140959234
Lead and take action when needed

Your hesitation and doubt cast a shadow on you.

You are valueless if you cannot take action.

You are valueless if you cannot handle pressure and take the lead.

Be the one that steps up.

Always.
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