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Antenuptial contracts don’t mean
- you don’t love your partner
- you’re not committed to making the relationship work

Please get one before getting the Lobola process going.. coz that’s an automatic customary marriage upon completion of the process.
Don’t let people convince you getting married in community of property means the love is real.

Inheriting someone’s debt is not romantic.. getting cleaned out should a divorce happen isn’t cute..

Choose a peace of mind regardless of any situation/ scenario.. 😇✌🏽
I got married at 23.. and even back then in my youth & naivety I knew I wanted one.. I had seen & heard way too much drama while growing up about people having to split their pension funds with exes.. or paying off huge debts (post death/ divorce) that they didn’t make..
Or even just paying off debts of your spouse coz they can’t manage their finances and keep dragging you backwards... coz their debt is your “in community”.. 😢

Whatever the scenario...
Can👏🏽Not👏🏽Ever👏🏽Be👏🏽Me..
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