#Abuser

lupinexus 🌙

LUPINEXUS

the reasons in which antis participate and encourage targeted harassment [a thread] this always seemed to puzzle people, or at least i think it does because a see a lot

Memes Against Patriarchy

revolutionaaris

Gaslighting: What It Is and What It Isn't (manipulation, narcissism, occasional bad behaviour) [THREAD]:Gaslighting is a specific type of manipulation where the manipulator tries to get you question your sense

firefly system

fireflysys

Problematic introjects: A comprehensive thread on what they are and how to handle them.#PluralGang #PluralTalk First things first: That's the last time you'll see me put the words "problematic" and

Coercive Control & Recovering From Trauma

CCCBuryStEd

Why don’t we leave abusers? I mean, if they’re that awful, we’d leave, right? I mean, it can’t be THAT bad if we choose to stay............Part 1: A THREAD#domesticabuse #coercivecontrol#domesticviolence

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skyshaymins

I want to make another important post: Grooming through art.Anti-shippers talk about grooming through art. They say that pedo/incest/abuse art grooms victims and leave it at that. They never elaborate

Indigo Daya

IndigoDaya

“Why I’m a mad activist”THREAD 1/1137 years ago I was a victim of child sexual abuse, by a man who abducted me.The police did nothing. My mother said to never

jgarcia

jasoncomix

A close cousin to this is abusers trying to control the narrative of what happened. Their denials fall apart when several survivors come forward, so they try to limit contact

M.M. Schill

mm_schill

I want to talk about something called "performative contrition". It is a term common in abuse survivor circles, and is a VERY common abuse tactic. It's an abuse tactic that's

Luna Corbden 🏳️‍🌈🧚‍♂️🏳️‍🌈

corbden

Just realizing that a blatant lie is an effective loyalty test.If you say that 2+2=5, you know that whoever rushes to agree with you can be relied upon to do

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mykalita_

We need to talk about “cancel culture” and accountability and abolition and restorative justice. It is irresponsible and misogynist to characterize/minimize de-platforming an abuser/rapist/predator as “cancel culture.” Deplatforming

Margaret Owen, Temporary Hermit

what_eats_owls

Apropos of some stuff that’s coming to light, and the fact that there may be some younger folks following me here, I’d like to run through three tactics I see

aTeen plus ➕

18plusmore

VICTIM ROLE.Women are biologically smarter than men. A hard truth. While most men like to show physical strength, most women show mental strength. That is why women discovered the victim

Essential Borker

workingdog_

As a survivor of abuse and sexual assault myself, I deeply appreciate this thread that draws the nuanced distinction between excluding an abuser from the social and community spaces the

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killdads

No discourse but Armie Hammer is a man who said he prefers rough sex but stopped wanting it with his wife because that’s the mother of his children and

Stacey Rudin 🙂

stacey_rudin

So you can be “safer,” I should: -take my kids out of school -stop seeing family and friends-never leave my house except to buy “essential” items-give up travel, entertainment, art,

Wear a mask

jessicawluther

I'm not the first to say it (not close) but I am repeatedly disgusted at the "any accountability is divisive" language -- it's abuser language, moving the work and blame

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